Ex-husbands new wife inviting me to the kids events on their weekends. Annoyed.?

Ok, so, if anyone knows the bible, the only grounds for divorce is adultery.. Your husband did that.. So you have every right to leave him.. The bible in this situation/ or god.. Is really not relevant. What I would say though, is maybe she is loneley? My x's firlfriend hated me for years. Then all the sudden the both of them were trying to get me to social events and spend time with them. Honestly, I think in my situation, they got bored of there life. The more happy positive people in your life and in your kids life, the better. I wouldnt jump to conclusions about her intentions yet. Id give her a chance. At the end of the day, to tolerate your x husband is a negative thing that is wearing you down. Nobody else. To be sad about something, feel bitterness, hatred. Anything negative is not good for you or your family. The fact that your asking for other peoples opinions means you still have an open heart, your 4 times burnt.. You have a right to be shy..But dont let his downfalls be a negative impact on you.. You watch, the more you forgive him and let it go and just pitty him for his foolishness, the lighter your load will feel.