WOULD YOUR BOYFRIEND/FIANCE/HUSBAND EVER DO THIS?

Iv been with my fiance for 5.5yrs and we have a 4yr old girl. She is autistic and things can be pretty bad with our different views on parenting which can lead to arguments then days on end of bad atmosphere. I can have some days were i feel real low and it can take the slightest thing to trigger it. yesterday was one. i was upset and tried to tell the other half what was wrong but he just fobbed me off and started getting loud so i left the room and stead in the bedroom and ended up just getting more upset but a horrible realisation just hit me. never in all the time iv been with him have i ever been given any comfort or emotional support watsoever no even a hug.he left me all day by myself knowing i was upset and went about his business. HIS sister and her kids came over and he came into the bedroom and seen me in tears and just asked were are the easter eggs "I" bought for her kids and went back out.hasnt spoken to me all night and there this morning i left. car my daughter and back to my parents. is this fair? have you been in similar situation?